Being happy every minute of every day is a difficult thing to do. There are some moments through the day when adversity strikes. Negative vibes come in different ways, from family situations, work or personal stress. We may have an idea of what activities to expect in our day but we have no assurance of what the day will bring.
"Ashes to ashes, dust to dust." Another family robbed of a bread winner, father and loving husband. Another heart left deserted. A woman cries and cannot see beyond the black clouds that press heavily on the heart. Now that he is no more she faces the fact that she and her three children have no home, no finances and no food.
We are the sole deciders of our happiness. Deciding to create positive vibes out of negative situations gives us the courage to conquer hard tasks and difficult situations. There can be no bright ray to gild this night of sorrow but pushing negativity to oblivion and accommodating positiveness within is the essence of life and existence.
Most good and bad thing have a upside or downside, there are no absolutes, so we must not worry ourselves too much with what going on in our lives, rather we must be up to the challenge every day, and be prepared to see that silver lining in every dark cloud.
I made a bet with myself the other day that I would smile that whole day - it last about three hours :)
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